30
Dec 25

Regulate her Day; Regulate her Mood

Family-on-Bicycles.jpg“Summer vacations can wreck havoc with a teen’s mood, but you can help your teen continue to improve mentally by providing goals and activities for the summer.”

Even if your teen is taking medicine for depression, anxiety, or another mental illness, you can hasten their recovery by making some lifestyle adjustments. The human brain thrives on routine. This is even more critical for someone with mental illness. If your teen is in school, they have an advantage because their day is already regulated for them. One of the best things for our brains is to simply walk outdoors for twenty minutes at the same time each day. The daylight lets our circadian rhythm know that it is daytime, serving as a natural sleep-regulator, and the exercise helps the brain to awaken and sharpen.

Exercise is a great way to boost mood and lower stress. If your teen is trying to decide between physical education and another class, physical education may be a better choice, especially since it does not include homework. If PE isn’t in the cards, an after-school run each day can substitute. A mid-morning snack of fruit or nuts, along with some water, can also keep your teen from mentally slumping. If your teen is on multiple medicines, they may require extra fluids since they can be dehydrating. This can be offset by drinking a large glass of water with the medicine. Some of the psychotropic medicines carry increased risk of overheating or sunburn. It may be too hot for them to exercise outdoors in the summer heat.

Beyond exercise, it is crucial that the teen go to bed at the same time every night. For an hour or two before bed, they should avoid the blue light emitted from glowing television or computer screens, which confuses the brain by making it think it is daylight. Bedtimes and exercise routines often get thrown off on the weekend. As tempting as it is for your teen to sleep in until noon on Saturday, it disrupts the brain’s rhythm. Try to keep the weekend routine as similar to the weekday routine as possible. Your teen may agree to sleep in only one hour later than usual if you promise to make them something special like French toast for breakfast.

Summer vacations can wreck havoc with a teen’s mood, but you can help your teen continue to improve mentally by providing goals and activities for the summer. For example, they may be willing to attend summer school if they knows that they’ll get a study period the following school year. This is a good way to keep them in a healthy routine while also easing the transition back to school.

If summer school is not an option, have your teen set some goals for the summer so that they have some structure, such as volunteering or learning a new instrument that requires daily practice. Ask them to set up a schedule for these activities and agree to a time for waking and bedtime, even if it is later than the school year routine.  As long as they keep to a routine, they’ll be okay, and they can slowly transition back a week or two before school resumes. Have them perform the exercise of their choice at least once a day for 40 minutes to an hour. At a minimum, they can walk the dog each morning and each evening, but establish a set time for the walks. They can make their afternoons unstructured for relaxation. The key is to maintain as close a schedule as possible.


15
Dec 25

Are Vitamins Better than Psychotropic Medicines?

Teenager“…adding a vitamin where there is no deficiency will not cure a disease that has a different source.”

Sooner or later, it seems like many parents of mentally ill teens ask themselves this question. When the medicine seems to bring only miserable side effects, it’s natural to ask ourselves if maybe we’ve missed the obvious. Even if the medicine has brought your teen relief, you may be dissatisfied that it hasn’t brought greater improvement.

A couple of summers ago, I browsed through a book on holistic medicine while I was visiting my mom. It said that people with bipolar disorder don’t absorb sufficient B vitamins, especially B12.  Since my son has bipolar disorder and I was always looking for new answers, I went to the health the food store and bought some vitamin B. After all, how could it hurt?

The B-complex I bought was called something like “Stress Tabs.” The irony of the name was lost on me until about a month later when my son complained that his anxiety was worsening. After a month of no improvement, I became suspicious of the vitamins and removed them. Within a couple of weeks, his anxiety had come back down. I’m glad I didn’t buy him a B12 shot as the book had suggested! The following summer, I had all of my son’s vitamin B levels checked during his blood work. To my surprise, they were all on the high side–including the B12. Lesson learned. I should have started with blood work and gotten some real information before rushing to buy something that seemed harmless.

Severe vitamin deficiencies can cause all sorts of symptoms. But adding a vitamin where there is no deficiency will not cure a disease that has a different source. If you suspect a deficiency, ask your doctor to test for it during blood work.